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walter
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goodnight everyone.
-walter
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And if it seems implausible that love, aka empathy, could be the solution to every problem, then try looking at it from the other direction; that is, the absence of empathy being the cause of every problem.
-walter
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Theory of Mind (ToM), and mirror neurons are two phrases used to describe the epathetic neural pathways if anyone's interested.
-walter
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The science of love is the neurology of empathy.
-walter
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I'm not sure if love is the answer to every question, though it might be. But I am sure it's the solution to every problem.
-walter
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Jimmy's a prophet. Goodnight everyone.
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Yeah Jimmy it is sad; friends don't really listen, teachers don't really teach, leaders don't really lead. It's not you - it's this world...
-walter
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i know you know that though, zeph.
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that was pete townsend, btw.
-walter
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here by the sea and sand, nothing ever goes as planned.
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and well if that how you feel, that's fine-but then what was the point of posting austen's remark, so we could all laugh at her?
-walter
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i was under the impression, that we farmed out most of our torture and interrogation work.
-walter
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christina onassis, was at the same time both one of the richest girls in the world and one of the most unhappy. ditto, doris duke.
-walter
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and jane austen apparently didn't get out very often.
-walter
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i'd say go ahead and post it, if you want my advice.
-walter
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mornin' all
-walter
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hallelujah, brother.
-walter
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they fear it, because they live and perpetuate a charade which has substituted fact, for truth. its only true if you can prove it, is their national anthem. they rely on a total blindspot toward what we have every right to see as a common sense of humanity they've seen what youve seen, theyve felt what youve felt, so how does their callousness made any sense? would they want you to be that way, if roles were reversed? thats only a question, because their brain damaged, and by what they are now giving out.
-walter
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unfortunately this gives short term social advantage at the expense of debt deferred over time. and geography. and culture. and generation. till now, they've simply been known as assholes. but then knowing only that hasnt done a whole to stop 'um now, has it. what they fear above all else, is merely truth. and that, you can tattoo that on your arm. it is, the truth.
-walter
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whenever a child manifests two beliefs which are still B)mutually exclusive with respect to each other, redundant empathetic architecture arises, because all social reasoning draws upon empathetic savvy, and thats true whether youre the predator or the prey. this parallel wiring becomes a very handy little switch that person A lets say , will throw to 'silent mode' for anyone 'B' through who's eyes(B's) they (A) look bad . oh, there, they feel bad. but then thats it. theyve learned to fake not feeling
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and the real problem, is its iice cold ntellectual psuedoempathy passing itself off as something its not, by first suggesting there's really only one form of empathy, and 'yur lookin' at it'. get past that, and you'll see the 'problem' is then ready to conceed to their being two, but they're both 'natural behavior', another lie. the empathy you see between a mother and an infant, that's the brand label. the other, is induced, culturally. and yes right -uh oh... culprits. shit. there's gunna be a fight.
-walter
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learn to recognize empathy as a physical act, no different than breathing. either you do it,, or you dont. and its not an invisible wind- it appears in neural images shot by fMRI's - mirror neurons. ToM , or theory of mind. but...response to other's behavior, happens in two separate places but never in both at once. in one, it's understood intellectually let's say, because n the other, it's clearly more an emotional experience. you feel it. -that , is empathy. and the first example, that is the problem.
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she had the right idea, but based it on the wrong motive. the key is, that there shouldn't be a motive. rand apparently felt she, or we, needed one. love, has no motive. and love is very simply empathy. plain vanilla empathy no sprinkles. just like you'd expect to find in any high school dictionary. its so simple, no one gets it.
-walter
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i do have to run too here's two differences between me and galt. which i think is only fair to add, one, i was once the very guy, who's ass i'm now up, with a microscope. second, i will and do live for others -unlike galt and rands army of objectivists- the only prerequisite requirement for my unquestioned willingness to step up someone being, their innocence. all kids get into that club free. no height restrictions.
-walter
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try coffee, sometimes that works for me. i knowest where thy comest from.
-walter
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hey whatever happened to that cup of coffee? did i leave it on a table somewhere, or did you forget about it, too?
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ayn rand that is. gtg, see you all.
-walter
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no i got it. well said. let me leave you with this, then i have to run out for a few hours. if youre ever curious about what planet i came from, somehow- my actual life, and the fictional life of the character john galt, from her book atlas shrugged, are more similar than most people would be willing to believe, that is based only on that me saying it is.
-walter
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it might have been ayn rand, but i cant say for sure.
-walter
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someone once said, all that evil needs to spread, is for good to do nothing.
-walter
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to see everything would be to judge nothing. it is our limited perspectives which all but force us into drawing comparisons as a substitute for absolute knowledge. the minute we decide we've seen far enough into something, we by default have judged it one way or the other, depending only then on how it looked when we stopped looking.
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my bigger concern though is the phenomenon where a person realizes or hears of something really standout ridiculous or terrible, but something inside steps in and says to them, "hey, if this was really as crazy as it sounds,all things considered, don't ya think you'd be learning about it in a much more loud and obvious way?,,, ya must be missing a key piece of the story. so look smart, and be quiet..." like say, the kitty genovese story. or the nazi germany wwII story. or native american indians.
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i guess i assumed that by saying it was all too much noise, what you meant was it was giving you a headache.but, that's more a reflection of my upbring than it is of you or f anything you said, trust me.
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iin all, ve spent very little time inside this sort of forum, and ill admit im still getting used to it. bear with me, if you will.
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well i didnt mean to cut in on your conversation, im sorry.
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does not light, illuminate darkness?
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i dont mean to be doom and gloom. its just that you'd mentioned cooperations collapsing beneath the weight of their own corruption. and i did have this weird thought, and so like i said, it seemed as though they might fit together in some small way. change the subject.
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is it just me, or does that sound to anyone else like it was a deleted scene from a movie like 'brazil'? when i think about it, sounds i dont know, immoral? corrupt? or like some kind of circus where we're down in the ring, and the corporate suits are up in the seats munching on popcorn and finding us all just so amusing...
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the point is, what if they did? or, do, i guess. im no expert in the field believe me... but think about that for a minute. companies like symantec and mcaffee i doubt are actually covert charities, the point being there's money in it to be made. so, you have the average MS antivirus customer paying MS, to protect them, that is the consumer, from vulnerabilities and the associated liabilities, arising from flaws is the other product they sold you, your computor.
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right. psuedophrends and psychophrends, yeah, you guys, there's this chatroom down the hall which i think is the one you were actually looking for... im kidding stay. youll get better. anyway. like i said, its early. here's the thought. microsoft has no product entry in the antivirus/antiwhatever market, but -it s a market that basically defines the word ubiquitous, a word that rarely fits any sentence. maybe im wrong, and maybe they do. but then, here's the point- coming right up...
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how about this one right here. you and i are philosophrends.
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no, but then i try not to miss too many chances where i see that i can make one up,
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its funny you should mention that butterfly, because i woke up this morning to a really from outta nowhere kind of thought but which fits right with what you said... now, i havent been up all that long, bear in mind. so, give me a little room here, ok?
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i was back there in the mail room.
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love a cup.
-walter
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Zar, thank you, I appreciate that. Sending Levi your birthday wish, now - : )
-Butterfly Magic
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Hello Wabak. : ) Thank you Hilmar ! Happy Birthday to Levi, tomorrow ! : D
-Butterfly Magic
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Get educated, don't turn a blind eye. The inherent rights of all children depend on it.
-Butterfly Magic
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If you're not a part of the solution, then you're part of the problem.
-Butterfly Magic
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we are seeing abusive parents realizing their own wounded inner-child -traumatized by the very same issues and coming to terms with Their truth and starting Their own healing journies- Look.. 1 in 3 girls?.. and 1 in 6 boys? fall victim to incest, rape, violent assault?.. And these are only the numbers that have been reported!! Suppose we Really knew the exact truth of it!.. omg...
-Butterfly Magic
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abduction, runaways, missing children, torture, murder, and trauma, AND healing. All of us banding together, we are making a difference, we are saving children, we are getting laws passed, we are helping others heal, we are teaching parents, we are teaching children, we are teaching our neighbors,
-Butterfly Magic
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Thousands of women and men around the world are bringing their stories out of the closet (a terribly difficult thing, but a first step toward a healing process) and also equally important - to bring awareness to the issues of incest, sexual abuse, rape, domestic violence, child abuse and neglect, child porn industry, child trafficing,
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I never said I was healed, I am only just at the beginning- Oh yes, I fully intend to regurgitate all the demons OUT!
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Gnarly.. I appreciate some of what you've said here.. but, you have yet to see the full view of the picture, you don't know all the reasons Why I am just now letting out my demons and Why I am doing it in this way, and obvious you and Zar know nothing about mind control, brainwashing, grooming, etc, during child development years and beyond.
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Ok Zar.. which is it? "Excellent".."freshing breeze".. Or, "stupid and selfish" ? You can't have it both ways- You are hiding from the issues.. Why?
-Butterfly Magic
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Hello Ratty : )
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Well friends.. should I post here word for word what My New Voice says? because Zar DOESN'T know all he needs to know? It would clog up GC for days and days, not to mention it would be a huge undertaking. No, that would be stupid and selfish of me. I have walked many an extra mile full of blood, sweat, and tears to put my truth out there, and you can't even click a key to read it. Pompous Ass.
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Thank you for standing with me dear friends. This is hard work. But it is good and right work. I may shake and shutter with disorder.. but my soul stands strong about 10 feet tall.. and stronger because you Stand With Me. I am grateful. Blessings abound. xxxxx
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Blog #3) http://my-new-voice.blogspot.com/2010/01/hold-everything-letter-comes-now.html
Blog #4) http://my-new-voice.blogspot.com/2010/01/today-unblocked-memory-realization.html
Blog #5) is being written now, about violence, terror, torture, of a ten year old.
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I am meeting this evilness, and ALL evilness Face To Face !!! If you REALLY want to know my Truth, READ ME!! ZAR..CLICK ON THESE LINKS AND READ ME!! http://apps.facebook.com/blognetworks/blog/my_new_voice/ -OR- Link up this way -
Blog #1) http://my-new-voice.blogspot.com/2010/01/my-new-voice.html
Blog #2) http://my-new-voice.blogspot.com/2010/01/turning-point.html
-Butterfly Magic
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Me and my friends around the world are coming out of the woodwork and laying all issues on the table and bringing them to the people, as hard as it may be - TRUTH is being TOLD - Issues people do NOT want to HEAR about.. but HEAR they Will!! -Silent no more!! -Sick parents, especially male parents/other family members, wiring tiny undeveloped minds, hearts, and bodies, placing filters over the eyes of sacred beings..
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Your knowledge of chakras came out of a comic book. Get a grip. You're not that smart. -gnarticulations This is a LIE. Nevermind what she personally does to cope day to day. That is surface stuff. That is Her business. She is fully aware of her true power, as is Mel, karen, Kimmy, and myself!
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The childhood traumas I met are also fully understood by my female friends here. Women around the world know the score, and we're MAD AS HELL!! Don't be surprised if the next age brings a matriarchal society. We're TIRED of this SHIT!!
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The denigeration of Girleys and Grannys...Synaptic spasms..all goes through their very own Trance formations. (see 2nd and 3rd Chakras) -sand You denigrate yourself daily, no one else need do it for you. You treat your body temple to denigration, because that is exactly what you put into it. Suck down some nicotine, tar, 200+ other chemicals this morning? Suck down some more coffee? I've read your posts. Your knowledge of chakras came out of a comic book. Get a grip. You're not that smart. -gnarticulations
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but NOW I am waking from that evil spell and I'm going to Speak my Truth whether you, Gnarly and Zar, can listen or understand it or not!! when the minds, hearts, and bodies of children are repeatedly raped, in the name of male dominant religion, government/political authority, and sick cultural practices (these are my personal story).. eventually, there comes a time when we AWAKEN and say - NO MORE !!!
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"The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it."..? ..Let me tell you about the PRICE I PAID !!!! - NEVER call me "Cowardly" or "in Denial" !! NEVER tell me I don't Speak MY Truth!! -Am I Angry!?.. Damn Right!! A healthy anger I never knew.. never let myself feel until Now, because I was under the evil spell (incideous mind-wiring-filters) of the two people I was born to,
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Gnarly and Zar - You can conceptualize and identify what you personally believe/know/see is the darkness that covers the World, and the work that is needed (as you see it), all you want to.. But, STOP FUCKING ME AND MY FRIENDS IN THE ASS WHILE YOU FORCE-FEED YOUR SANCTIMONIOUS MALE EGOIC IDENTIFICATIONS AND CONCEPTUALIZATIONS AND INSULTS, TO US !!!!
-Butterfly Magic
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The Wiring blinded me! The incideous secret underdealings kept me from Seeing or Moving Forward with True Purpose of my existence !! My Growth was Stunted, and I am Behind !! ..1 IN 3 females knows these truths I know, but only if they can wake up and separate themselves from their abusers, and the teachings/brainwashings of their abusers !!
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- And I should have never, NEVER been BRAINWASHED and had to PAY THE 'PRICE' I PAID -FOR DECADES !!! ..For Decades, I could Not SEE that I HAD ISSUES?.. that the worsening mental, emotional, and physical dis-orders and dis-ease were SEWN AND SECURED when I was just a very young child!?! NOW I can SEE it CLEARLY, and I'm Fighting MAD that the abuses caused so much damage, pain, and struggle in my life !!
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We each hold many truths.. There is Not just ONE "Vedic" truth, or "ZOG" darkness covering all the earth, depressing earthly inhabitants! ..Let me tell you about the price I paid in my innocence at the hands of my "care-takers" enmeshed in incidious deceptions of generational abuse in a patriarchal society !!! The issues are at PANDEMIC proportions!!
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Still, if you claim to be concerned about societal problems, if you are not willing to sit on the side lines, if you want change, and are willing to fight to make it a reality, history, then you must confront this truth, because further life on Earth depends on its resolution. And always remember that there is no escape from this... "The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it". -White Noise ...
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Hello dear Wabak. Kimmy thank you.. "Grace rains reins reigns".. seems like I've heard that before.. ; )
Ok, fair warning - I am going to spew -
-Butterfly Magic
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Gnarly.. I can say any goddamn thing I want to here, so get the fuck OFF OF ME mother-fucker!!
-Butterfly Magic
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Gnarly.. I know the words that came from them, came through them from other sources. Surely a person of your intelligence can get the gist of my post.
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Kimmy and sand, What a blessing to witness and experience your words today. Thank you.
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Happy Birthday, Mel !! "}i{"
-Butterfly Magic
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"If a child discloses abuse by someone you know, don’t allow divided loyalties to cloud your judgment. Considering that 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys are sexually abused by the age of 18 and that 90% of abusers are someone the child knows, isn’t it naïve to think you don’t know an abuser?" Christina Enevoldsen
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1 in 4 girls, and 1 in 6 boys fall victim to sexual abuse by a family member. The next time you see all those kids in holiday program, on the playground, in the malls, in your churches... Think about this!
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"She (the adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse) may have emotional support, survival skills, self-sufficency, cognitive abilities, some degree of emotional development, but she has little confidence in herself and does not feel her fear in this context. She feels it as the defenseless child." Secret Survivors by E. Sue Blume
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“The absolute access of the perpetrator—who in fact, the victim might actually have had to live with—resulted in her not having a home. Thus many incest survivors are very aware of turf. They feel safe in their own homes, but the safe space around them can only partly compensate for a lack of safety inside. They must f...ace the pain of the past; it cannot be erased by a fortress built today.” Secret Survivors
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“Rebuilding self-esteem is complicated & difficult to help someone to do. You cannot give self-esteem to someone. Even loving her will not do it, because without self esteem, she cannot accept love. It frightens her. It makes her feel even more unworthy. It bounces off her. Only she can do the painful healing work that... builds self-esteem.” Secret Survivors by E. Sue Blume
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Part of healing from abuse is experiencing the pain you were never allowed to feel.
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"A child is groomed by his abuser through acts of kindness, gifts and attention. The victim’s family & community are seduced in the same way. Why do we think that those who commit insidious acts can’t also mow our lawn or help us carry groceries? It’s dangerous to assume that likeable and trustworthy are the same thing." Christina Enevoldsen
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CAP: Do whatever it takes to get in a better mood, even if it's not on your schedule as written. When you're sending out good vibes, the whole world will respond to make your way easy. -sand ..omg. I am learning and understanding more as I go thru healing process. There is no quick fix to horrible childhood traumas locked away for 50 years that I now must revisit. And some memories are blocked. Can't just put on happy face mask and keep going. That only enables the lie that all is well.
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It's her tenth birthday today, too bad she can't be here and in paradise in the same time...
-Wabak Liquid love flows. A long warm embrace is on it's way to you now. xx
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The morning started at 28F, up to 49F now, lol, fingers like ICICLES! Crystal work continues with large (heavy!) clusters in 5 gal. buckets of water (had to break through ice on top!! *v* ), or in acid - depends where crystals are in process. I'm just now seeing for the first time some of the most beautiful pieces, yet!! : D More to come.. : )
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I am grateful to find Me.. Grateful to simply Be. Grateful to meet you on the Path.. Grateful to know love-sparks connect. Halieliga Ulihelisdi, Unalihelisdiyou wado (Cherokee) - Happy Thanksgiving, everyone.
-Butterfly Magic
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Humbly, warmly embracing you, Wabak. Merci Adeline. xoxox
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Belle lumière et la joie qui est Adeline .. A la plus exquise Butterfly.
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Breath-taking form of human artistry - http://www.ted.com/talks/pilobolus_perform_symbiosis.html
I think sam would appreciate this : )
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